As you go through your journey of fully becoming who you came here to be--a powerful helper & change-maker-- there will be many times when you're in the "in-between".
This is the time when you're no longer your old self, but your new identity isn't anchored in yet.
If you think of a snake shedding it's skin, this is the time when your old skin is sloughing off but the new one isn't quite on yet.
This time,
right before crossing the threshold into a new version of yourself--the you that has an increased capacity to serve with impact, purpose and joy-- can feel very challenging.
A lot of emotion, such as grief or fear, can come up as you let go of old patterns.
Or you can feel
a sort of disconnection and numbing.
I've seen this show up in my clients right as they're about to go to the next level of service and leadership.
They might be getting ready to share new teachings with their clients.
Or to relocate to a more suitable place for their well being and service.
Or even to finally start their own business.
But instead of excitement they feel waves of dread or apathy.
These emotions often makes them think that they're on the wrong path or that they've made a mistake.
But this like the crowning moment in birth when the baby's head is right on the verge of emerging but is not fully out yet.
In this case, the baby is your new triumphant identity.
So, I remind my clients of this and I help bring them back to trust and alignment.
As they recenter they recognize that this is an incredibly valuable and fertile time where so much of their service is being refined.
And they create momentum and their new identity shows up sooner than ever.
So, my dear, you're in the "in-between", remember that although you may feel like you're going backwards, you're actually closer than ever.
Call on your Soul to be your loving
midwife.
You can simply say something like:
Beautiful Soul, midwife me through this transformation into this new identity.
Lovingly say good-bye to the
old you, and feel the new you patiently and lovingly calling you forward.
Breathe and remind yourself that you've got this and that this moment is precious and will help you assist others through their own deep transformations.
Blessings,
Lisa
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